Separated Parents Information Program
The Separated Parents Information Programme (SPIP) is a course designed to help parents become clear about what their children need most from them and learn the fundamental principles of how to manage conflict and difficulties between separated parents – including how to put this into practice.
The programme encourages parents to take steps for themselves; this may include developing agreements that do not need court intervention. The programme will give you ideas and signpost ways in which you can get help outside court, and you are expected to make use of these where possible. If this leads to agreed arrangements that are safe and beneficial for children, the court will help with this process. The majority of parents that go on the course find it very helpful.
- It is usually delivered to mixed groups of parents in one four-hour sessions or in two, two-hour sessions. You must be there for the whole programme.
- Separated couples do not go on the same course, but it is important that both parents go on a programme.
- Looks at working with separated parents to consider the best interest for your children.
- What children need: you will watch a powerful video which demonstrates the impact of communication between parents and their children.
- Parent communication – you will be asked to think about prepared scenarios from other viewpoints. You will also see and try out some methods that can help both of the parents react better to stress in practical ways.
- Emotions – you will look at the emotional effect of separation or being separated parents and the options for moving forward.
A SPIP might be appropriate for parents (or other parties) when:
- You have difficulty focusing on your children’s needs due to ongoing conflict.
- You find that your feelings and reactions to the separation are affecting your ability to communicate about your children.
- You would like communication to improve, perhaps you are thinking about medication.
- There are no safeguarding concerns about children or parents.
To take part in the course:
Courts have the power by making it a court order. This “directs” parents to attend the programme aimed at promoting safe contact with children.
You can be ordered to go to a Separated Parents Information Programme and/or to a Mediation Information Meeting. Cafcass is usually asked to advise the court if it is suitable for you. You can choose a SPIP provider convenient to you.
There is NO charge to Cafcass service users for the SPIP. If you wish to self refer to our Lancashire SPIP centres we ask for the amount of £95.
- Getting it Right for Children – to help with the skills you need to parent after separation www.theparentconnection.org.uk